Wednesday, August 23, 2017

Way to Build and Preserve Better Boundaries

Way to Build and Preserve Better Boundaries


I’m not really hearing any of them say don’t blog about personal things – rather the message is to consider what you will and will not share on your blog.

Its also useful to define your blog to some extent (at least in your own mind) and keep within the boundaries you’ve set yourself.


Below, she offers insight into building better boundaries and maintaining them



1. Name your limits.


2. Tune into your feelings.


3. Be direct.


4. Give yourself permission.


5. Practice self-awareness.


6. Consider your past and present.


7. Make self-care a priority.


8. Seek support.


9. Be assertive.


10. Start small.


I’m not really hearing any of them say don’t blog about personal things – rather the message is to consider what you will and will not share on your blog.

Its also useful to define your blog to some extent (at least in your own mind) and keep within the boundaries you’ve set yourself.

How to stop blogging.

How to stop blogging.



Are You Seasoned?


Do you understand your subject matter well enough to discuss it in your own terms? Chefs learn the basics before they go on to create their own mind-blowing recipes. You should too. Beginner’s luck is highly overrated.

Read as much as possible and take classes from the very best resources in your business. As you build a better framework of understanding you’ll be able to offer your readers much more than warmed-up leftovers from somebody else’s blog.

This also builds trust with your audience when you have the integrity to voice your own thoughts instead of ripping off someone else’s. If you love what somebody else is saying on your beloved topic, then please do quote and link, give attribution, celebrate his or her savvy, but don’t quietly copy. Get seasoned and say something of your own.


The average blogger posts once every 14 days – personally I tend to mainly visit bloggers who update more regularly than that. As a blog reader I get to know the rhythm of the blogs that I read. I don’t mind if they are daily, weekly or even fortnightly bloggers – but whatever their rhythm I find myself loosing interest if they disappear for unexplained periods of time. So get into a rhythm of blogging.


For me, there are 3 things that help me keep blogging:


    Staying organized
    Having a daily plan
    Staying focused


Optimize your blog post titles for search, but don't be boring

Optimize your blog post titles for search, but don't be boring



Impatient searchers


The web is a “lean forward and participate” medium. Television, by contrast, is a “lean back and let it wash over me” medium.

What can you do to engage your readers so they lean into your content, stay on your pages, and interact with your information?


Make it snappy



If you want to cover a complex topic, consider breaking it into a series of posts. It’s a great way to keep people coming back for more, and your reader will find it easier to digest your content if they get it in portion-controlled sizes.


Make a clear statement about what your readers will be able to learn or do. For instance:


    Ten Easy Ways to Write Faster
    Five Simple Steps to Set Up Your Blog in Less Than Two Hours
    Eight Expert Tips for Running Your First Marathon
    Five Crazy Videos That Will Make You Laugh Out Loud


In a word or three tell your reader what the post is about in your title. Most people will not take the time to read something unless they know what it is about first.



Try to incorporate words in your title that are likely to be searched for by readers in search engines. Get into their shoes — what search term would you use if you were wanting information on this topic? If you’re writing about Britney Spears – put her in your title and you’ll increase its ranking in the engines.

Best Blog Designers For Hire

Best Blog Designers For Hire


Design is a personal favorite of mine. She produces clean, fresh and stylish blogs and logos and was recommended by a number of commentators in the previous post.

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Planning can be further divided into three parts:


    Researching about the client’s company
    Asking the client what he wants and expects from the web
    Pondering upon what his competitors are doing and the related industry trends


 I have some theories as to why there are so few people specializing in blog design professionally.


– A lot of people feel they can do a reasonable job themselves.
– Most people know someone that knows someone who will do it for free (or very cheap).
– People are not willing to pay much for something that they can get for free and then ‘tinker’ with.


When someone comes to the point



When someone comes to the point



If top readers read at speeds of above 1000 words per minute (wpm) with near 85% comprehension, they only represent 1% of readers. Average readers are the majority and only reach around 200 wpm with a typical comprehension of 60%.

In 96 seconds they will read 320 words.

So keep things short and to the point. I know this sounds crazy coming from me – but the stats show my longer posts are often largely are ignored.


  Keep your first sentence short.

I’m a big fan of short sentences. I love them because people can understand them easily. There's an insane amount of value in short sentences that are readable, digestible, and punchy.

But often, writers get so caught up in the stress of their introduction that they come out with long, garbled sentences. The problem with long, garbled sentences is that it makes readers work hard. Readers don't want to work hard to understand your article -- especially at the beginning. Lead off your introduction with a bite-sized sentence or two.

Blog posts – what time should you hit publish on your posts?


So let’s take a look at when to publish blog posts.



One thing Dan suggests we consider is that if we post during time of higher traffic, we’re more likely to have higher bounce rates and get lost amongst the noise of other content being published.

On the other hand, posting at times when fewer people are online will garner less traffic and engagement, but give our posts more prominence and less competition against other content.




    70% of users say they read blogs in the morning
    More men read blogs at night than women
    Mondays are the highest traffic days for an average blog
    11am is usually the highest traffic hour for an average blog
    Comments are usually highest on Saturdays and around 9am on most days
    Blogs that post more than once per day have a higher chance of inbound links and more unique views